We Are Stories

My grandma—one of my favorite people. I miss her a lot.

A few years ago, I took a class on video editing. At the time, I was in charge of social media for a locally owned business, and videos were becoming the thing. We learned how to storyboard, how to keep photographs from feeling static, and how to sync sound with image. Most of all, we learned how to present a story. The final project needed to be five minutes and contain a certain number of specific things to show how much we had learned over the semester. I wrote a few fictional pieces, but my grandma’s stories, filled with no-nonsense hope and perseverance, kept returning to me as I tried to develop my project. When I showed “Everyone Calls Me Tommie” to the class—a masterwork by no means but motivated by love—it inspired those who still could to interview the elders in their lives. We are, after all, made up of stories as much as we are flesh and blood.

While my five-minute film was posted on YouTube, there were some similarities to Ray’s (2019) description of the Human Library. My grandma’s experience as a migrant farmworker fleeing Oklahoma during the Dust Bowl had been used to discriminate against her. She was an Okie. For a time, she was homeless, a young girl living with her family in the river bottoms. The minute people got to hear her story, she became human to them, deserving of compassion. Like mentioned by Ray (2019), her tale being told allowed her to be “unjudged.”

Libraries have a special relationship with their towns. They are not only bastions of knowledge, they are community hubs, allowing all types of people to feel welcomed and safe. As Stephens stated so concisely, “every voice should be heard. Every story told” (Paxaman, 2019). Libraries have the privilege of being an environment that can be used to connect people, share stories, and help them create. Our public library has hosted Community Conversations for many years, striving to bridge the widening gap between people on different ends of the political spectrum or those who feel threatened by how the county is changing with new populations moving from the Bay Area and Southern California. Community Conversations has allowed people to hear each other’s stories and to recognize that we are all more alike than we are different.

My grandma passed away this January at the age of 94, her strong, loving heart growing weary at last. I miss her every day, but I am comforted by the memory of a project completed before I learned about the importance of libraries as the stewards of stories. For those five minutes of video, there are hours of interviews, containing the tales of a life well-lived. They now belong in my personal library, waiting for family and friends to view and enjoy, and perhaps to someday be a part of a longer film personalizing the struggles and triumphs of one woman who survived the Dust Bowl and beyond. As a librarian it is my responsibility, after all, to not only keep stories but to share and make them as well (Stephens, 2019).

References

Paxaman, M. (2019, September 3). Challenged but not dying, the public libraries are more relevant than ever. Jutland Station. http://www.jutlandstation.dk/challenged-but-not-dying-the-public-libraries-are-more-relevant-than-ever/?fbclid=IwAR1g1o4r9XqHTuu8IuGOIWQcGW_EC40ID99C4OYkDxF3xuMiDoWhnpG8Spw

Ray, M. (2019, April 12). Courageous conversations at the human library. Next Avenue. https://www.nextavenue.org/courageous-conversations-human-library/

Stephens, M. (2019). Whole-hearted librarianship: Finding hope, inspiration, and balance. American Library Association. 

8 responses to “We Are Stories”

  1. @mhannum
    What a wonderful project you put together. Thank you for sharing your video with us. It’s inspiring and reinforces the vitality of documenting & sharing our elders’ stories. My grandmother passed away almost 10 years ago and I still miss her. I think of her every time I drink an iced coffee if you can imagine that. I really enjoyed reading your reflection on how personal stories are very much like the stories libraries can/should collect, preserve, and share.
    -Fin

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    1. Thank you, Fin! Grandmothers are so important. I love that you think of yours whenever you have an iced coffee.

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  2. My heart! I am so glad you have this amazing video and I am sorry you lost your grandmother. I lost my mom at 33 and I so wish I had a video of her talking and telling a story. You really tap into what libraries can do for folks to create memories.

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    1. Thank you! My grandma was one of my favorite people in the world, and I miss her every day. We had an evening ritual of a phone chat to decompress from the day, and I still find myself reaching for the phone around 7:00 p.m. I am sorry about losing your mom. It can be so hard. My mom suffered a stroke last year and is battling Parkinson’s, and I have found myself hoarding voicemail messages from her. I wish everyone could have recorded memories of their loved ones.

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  3. Arwen O'Reilly Griffith Avatar
    Arwen O’Reilly Griffith

    Thanks so much for sharing this! It is such a perfect example of how every person has such a unique window into the past and deepens our understanding of what it is to be human. I keep thinking that we are living through history with the Covid-19 pandemic. Allowing people to tell their stories might be a way to help them process as well.

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    1. Hi Arwen!
      That is a wonderful thought, giving people an avenue to process their experiences with COVID-19. I just listened to a great podcast from NPR’s Life Kit on how to capture family stories. https://www.npr.org/2021/11/12/1055128650/how-to-record-oral-family-history
      It could be a good resource, too.

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  4. What a fantastic project inspired by love!! An excellent example for all of us to capture these special memories before it’s too late!

    Thank you for sharing,

    Kristi

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    1. Thank you, Kristi!

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